Just a thought on my journey home on the busy London buses… I was told by my friend the other night ‘your the only one of my friends that’s in a relationship and comes out with the girls without their boyfriend’. Girls need to learn that boyfriends will never be as good as your girls on a different level. A woman will know this.
Dropping your friends for a guy is beyond stupid and unhealthy for a relationship. You need people around you to have a healthy relationship. You need friends but many people take this for granted and find themselves lonely in ways they won’t admit. Speaking from someone in a 6 year relationship I can honestly say he’s my best friend. But it was important for us to learn to be ourselves first and learn to be independent in our lives, which made us be stronger together as a unit. I know in myself I will always have my family ( my girls) to love me in a different sense to how he does! This is incredibly important…learn and understand because no one wants to stand alone mentally and physically if an unfortunate event was to happen. Build your foundations individually and you will build a stronger foundation together!